Just a thought
why do i blogged? simple.... because i've something to say.... and well, no one to listen... so i juz pour every single thought in the blog... it's my freedom of speech... the way i best express myself comfortably...
Just a mere thought... why do we always hear women say something like "guys are all the same?" well, most guys i met are different but yes, proven to be the same in certain situations...
Situation 1: When they haven't got the girl
Every guy in this situation loves the hunt.... well, people say men are hunter right? they love the feeling of hunting and conquering the trophy... and at this moment, they will show their best personality ever... trying to be as gentlemen as they could to cherish the girl... giving her all of the attention in the world.. showing how deep they care for her... making the girl feels as if she's the most important person to him...
Situation 2: When they got the girl
After love are confessed.... and they got used to be together... got to know each other better... then all the gentlemen thingy are gone... along with the attention and whatever thing they used to do to make the girl fell in love with them.... they go back to being themselves... showing their true color.... and the girl started to think... why did he changed? am i not important anymore? this is not the guy i fell in love with... and some girl... will start to find "the one they used to fall in love with a.k.a the one that used to cherish her" in some other guy.... and soon she'll see that the cycle will happen again.... exactly the same cycle,.... so she started to come into the conclusion, "men are all the same"...
we rarely heard men said something like "women are all the same" naaahhh.... we heard they said something like "women are complicated".... because they simply don't have the ability to read emotions... all women are the same in the sense that we want someone who love us unconditionally... by "love" it means someone who at least show that they care... Aren't the responsibility of men to take care of ur women? If women can take care of themselves, then what's the purpose of men in this world? Being single and alone is better that feeling alone when u're in a relationship with someone.... that's the worst feeling....
