Even the strongest people fall apart
Having the hurt u didn't deserve is like being sentence over someone else's crime..... Happens to the good ones, those who play by the rules and always do the right things... But when people they love started to cross the boundaries, committing sins whether intentionally or not, they're the ones who pay for it... being punished for mistakes they didn't do... they got hurt so bad..
How bad?
“Why is this happening to me?, what did i do wrong?“ the questions they asked themselves over and over again since there's no answer to it and they'll start to blame themselves over their innocence for trusting too easy... And most of the times they wish it never happened... and wonder how their life would've been so much better if they weren't hurt at the first place...
They prone to get sensitive to certain song, movies, words, since the memory of it will trigger so much hurt and painful feelings.. They don't want to ever think about it but the mind just keep on replaying the conversations, the lies, the stories over and over again... and hurt over time becomes resentment.. resentment becomes anger and nightmares... and having these nightmares are just like swallowing poisons that eventually leads to self-destruction...
They tried to comfort themselves by telling all the positive things they could and by hoping to discover answers that will help them making sense of everything that have happened.
That is what being hurt really means... this is how mistakes of those we love can consume us...
and the heartache goes deeper to the innocent minds...
I guess after all... forgive, forget and move on is easier said than done..
