The Other Side Of Me

Only the piano accompanies me throughout the day
The sleeping cello, Is silent and old 
I think that you've made yourself perfectly clear
I understand and I know 
You're not going to regret the break up

You said that you will be sad, But i don't believe it
You being with me was already in the past
I hope that he will love you more than I do 
So i can force myself to leave

You want me to say it, it is very embarrassing 
I never want us to part 
Why do I need to replace my sadness with a smile? 
I do not have this kind of talent, To accept both u & him
You don't have to worry too much, I will be fine

You've gone so far away, And I will slowly walk away 
Why must I need to put up with you even for the break up? 
I really do not have the talent, To be silent this fast 
I decided to let u go, Because I love you so much

-Jay Chou-

p/s: why would someone leave a sincere love like this?
 love is blind? or certain human are juz perfectly stupid?

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..... Here it goes, the 10 ways men think could melt a girl's heart....

1. Be pursuant:  Pursue her without the pressure.  In other words, don’t try to “front” and be cocky.  Have a conversation first and show her you are interested beyond her appearance.  You don’t have to come up with some crazy pickup line.  You can simply say, “I want to introduce myself…” Be sincere and genuine in wanting to get to know her.  I see too many good guys get intimidated by a girl’s beauty up front, but take a closer look, and find her true self.  Honestly, if you can get past this, you’ll have a leg up on the other idiots out there.  After all, being genuine is where you excel the most.  
2. Be a gentleman:  Girls don’t want to be treated like a queen, but they do want to be treated like a princess.  She doesn’t want you to be a doormat, she wants you to be the one in charge. Open every door for her, especially the car door.  Pull out her chair and allow her to sit down first when you take her on a date, and let her order first.  When you are walking alongside the street, you should be the one walking closest to the street.  Being a gentleman is being selfless.
3. Be complimentary:  On our first date, I told her “You look so beautiful.”  I then told her how great she looked when I saw her without makeup the night before.  It was real and sincere.  While she later revealed to me that she had been testing me to see if I would still like her without makeup, I simply saw a girl who didn’t have enough time because she just got done at the gym.  That was incredibly sexy to me.
4. Be creative:  You don’t have to blow your bank account to impress her.  Think outside the box.  I’ve been watching one of my good buds Danny Booko pursue his girl right.  He took her on a hike in Malibu, CA to waterfalls and then took her to this place called M Café complete with swans.  He’s also taken her to the Getty museum and the zoo, which are free.   Another idea is to take her to a place like Color Me Mine, where you paint your own pottery.  Putting thought and originality into a date lets her know you really care about showing her the best in life and it allows you to experience each other across various situations.
5. Be intentional:  Invite her to parties, events, and game nights with your friends.  I called Kristen every day when I finally got her number.  I sent her encouraging text messages and inspirational Bible verses.  I told her I wanted to be her man on our fifth date.  She wasn’t ready, but she knew what I wanted.  I gave her the time she needed with no stipulations, while still pursuing her intentionally. She told me she loved that.
6. Be proud:  Speak well of her in front of other people.  Hold her hand.  Some dating experts recommend saying backhanded compliments, but nothing beats a genuine and sincere compliment.  A backhanded compliment might work for a one-night stand, but come on, this is a poisonous ingredient in trying to form a long term relationship.  Treat her just as kindly in front of friends and family as you do when you are alone.
7. Be attentive:  Show her that you care for her and her needs.  Pay attention to the small details.  Girls care about the small stuff, big time.  For instance, on our first date, I knew Kristen was a vegetarian, so I took her to a vegetarian restaurant called Café Gratitude.  Listen to what she has to say.
8. Be protective:  Don’t let her walk alone to her car.  If she’s going on a jog or walk at night, tell her you want to go to keep her safe.  If she’s going to the gas station at night, go with her.  If you’re at a club and she needs to go to the restroom, take her there and wait outside the door.
9. Be a good listener:  Ask solid open-ended questions that include “what,” “how,” and “why.”  If you’re doing most of the talking, you’re not getting very far with her.  Show her you care with body language and by repeating back some of what she just told you.
10. Be romantic:  Plan ahead.  What do you want your love story to be? You are the writer. When people ask where your first kiss was, you don’t want her to answer with the driveway or that you were drunk at a party.  The night I kissed Kristen for the first time, I wanted it to be special.  I took her to an overlook on Mulholland Drive.  We stood on top of the city, and that night I was her very own Superman.  It was a special moment and I ended up proposing to her there.

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