The Other Side Of Me

I know most people would agree with this statement... Even i once did... But now that i look at it again i seriously think that this is totally NOT cool and a lil bit of self-centered.. Yes, most people don't forget because they need to learned from it... But forgiving does include forgetting.. it's a package.. i mean that's y people call it forgive & forget, right? So u won't ended up bringing an old issue in a new argument in the future because u simply can't let go... 

Just like most people, i've been wronged... i've been hurt, i've been treated like shit... I used to say this thing.. i'll forgive u but i'll never forget what u ever did to me... Can u even count that as forgiving someone? naaahhh..... People always look at how they've been wronged but they never see how they hurt others whether intentionally or unintentionally.... We've heard some cliche words such as Nobody's perfect, everyone makes mistakes bla..bla..bla... unknowingly to us, we hurt other people too... means we have our share in whatever damage it is... I'm not perfect & i can be difficult... i may NOT intentionally hurt others but i can't help it if people misunderstood me... So yes, i take it as my fault.. I forgive & forget but whether i still want them in my life, that's another story... For sure, i never want to remember any of the "sweet mistakes" idiots have done in my life... To all those people who've wronged me before, u're officially forgiven thus forgotten err, do i know u? 

P/s: move on peeps! Don't live in the mistakes of others... 
Forgetting is a favour u do for YOURSELF not for other people